My memory serves me right!! Just years ago i dreamt of
getting married at the age of 26. That wasn’t impossible, still aint. But then
one can’t be oblivious to the ignorance of society. People stilk mocking the
activity. Society not fully embracing the celebration or people attending the
wedding just because they are more curios about “what happens at a gay weeding”
then the feeling of fulfilment to celebrate the sentiment of the day
I forgot to pay attention to my prayers and to what i had
asked King Jesus. I asked Him fopr blessings and for change in my life. I use
top ask God to use me as an instrument to inspire and motivate a soul.
On the 5th of October just recently I got engaged
to a very smart, spiritual, sweet and soulful young man who regards being with
me as a room of possibility. I am honoured and highly favoured to make a firm
move by celebrating and wowing to a new beginning. I remember being blessed
with the presence of many people who loves us totally and ensured that i don’t have
any at the event that does not celebrate the sentiment with us. Good it did us
because all set there with great smiles. All commented that they were moved to
see two souls embracing the power of love.
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| Gregory and I at our commitment dinner(engagement party) |
I am from a community where being gay aint taboo but steady
and stable gay relationships are a rarity. I am one of the very few if not the
only one who had the courage to get engaged to one I love. I remember telling a
friend of mine that i refuse to disqualify myself from the notion” happily ever
after” just because i am gay, but then again I was never gay I was always just
Gift. Lol!!!
I wish to move many gay people to commit and I do not dispute
any who decides differently. I do however have a dying wish for many to exercise
the discipline of being inlove and embracing it fully. The time of after 9(down
lows) is to be destroyed!! Let’s have our partners and let mamma know who they
are!! We really need to run away from the stigma that gay people are sex
objects!! Society might just respect us more if we show them differently!!
Many thanks to the many bold gay and lesbian family who
confidently loves and allows to be loved
before the sun sets!!
DO REMEMBER..LIFE AINT OVER UNTIL YOU DONT SEE THAT
BEAUTIFUL SMILE OF YOURS
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