Tuesday, 26 November 2013

Mirror: Let me remove the spark from my eyes.

Gift Kgosierileng looking in the lens of his phone.
Careful to believe what is said to you and about you!!

Ever had a friend telling you that you are pathetic, lazy, crazy, lame or boring,whatever. The thing is the very second you start believing in that you are actually coating yourself with that and it will eventually become but of your being. Stop allowing people who has always made believe that they are perfect or better than other make you believe what they about you is true.

 What people say about you doesn't make who you are, only you can construct who you are, only you can mold how people can treat you, only you can behave in a certain way to be respected or mocked. Only you can make the choice on how you will allow what is said about you to break you. It doesn’t mean when someone drives a better car then you, longer hair than yours, more stylish than you or more educated then you, that what they say about you is standard and law. Only you can say who you are and the greater above. Remember that there are many miserable people, insecure ones and like all of us, people with problems and it’s really cute for them to put you down, sadly and pathetically that is where they get their temporary smile from!!! It’s about time that you take charge of your moods and stop allowing people to be the moderator of your moods and behavior!! Stop allowing people to impose emotional responsibilities upon you that you can’t meet!! Stop people taking advantage of you when you think you are just being a good friend, yet you are not perceived like that!! Stop eating so much food when you constantly complain about being fat!!  Stop being depressed and analyse the circumstances of happy ones to see flaws in order to bring a smile to you!!! Stop fighting for attention, it is not always that attractive!! Stop talking so passionate at times, so self righteous, so all-knowingly and depriving you from listening!! Do remember that Eistein was known for listening and taking notes, and not mumbling and gaining weight.

Love yourself regardless!!


Live is only over until you don’t see that smile of yours!!

# Listening to Jessie J-Who You Are
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Tuesday, 19 November 2013

Mirror Mirror on the wall: I look at me

The world is just that!!  A stage!!! And i made a choice to perform!!

When I reflect back at what I woke up too as a young boy I realise I woke up to a grandma who loved exercising and still rocked stilettos like it was meant for her!! I woke up to a granddad that loved me and would tell me tales tucking me to sleep!! I remember my late mamma listening and painting or reading me a bible story!!

Gift on the happiest
I’m left and I ges i need to leave a lagcy behind. One lives one only and you cannot let an abusive relationship, an incurable disease or a hater stops you from doing so!! I choose to not allow lemons to dictate how i gonna live my live! One sometimes need to live like there is no tomorrow but how can one do that if anything said about you nails you down? Isn’t it reality that people will always talk and they will seldom see the good but would have perfect vision for the worst! I call my lil sister fat all the time, and because of her confidence she doesn’t ALLOW Givado to nail her down like that!! Im exposed to constant comparison!! People constantly calling others whatever when the sad part is all of us just want to live and wake up with a smile!! If no one can guarantee us that, which is what i have learned...i made a conscious choice to associate myself whit those i can learn from, those who can contribute to my excellence, those who love to see me happy, those who believes when i can achieve they too can!!!
Life has no secret and tru,they didn’t lie when they told us about the law of attraction, don’t waste ya time by mocking or being jealous of them, use that same time and take tips!!


#Life aint over until u don’t see that beautiful smile of yours.

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