I remember all the oppportunities i had siezed all my life! the liberty of chosing which vasity to apply to next year! the options to who I hang out with tonight on my conditions. the boyfriend that i like for the silliest reasons! all these options i had.
i also remember being left broken hearted and believing that i will never be able to love anyone with such magnitude. I remember making great mistakes and always asking>' WHAT COULD'VE BEEN IF I HAD NOT...." WHERE WAS I GONNA BE TODAY IF I HAD NOT?...
I had learnt that we all have these moments in our life that we just cant seem to erase. We do feel that if we had not commit that spesific blunder all was gonna be well. If we hadn't commited to this spesific person all was gonna be diffrent, weird how we believe in the power of ones past so much! and forget that we are acually breathing and we still have an oppurtunity to change our options,choices and what we do for the better. Life is a box full of suprises, i would believe it consist of 90% of greatness and 10% is a box filled with room to : make choice,choose correct and BE ETERMINED. so its in the art of yourself to allign all you do with being conscious about that for your future. every second,minute, hour and day is a new beggining.
we tend to forget the power of co-exsistance! we have friends at the office to teach us, parents at home to guide us,people in the street to help us understand diffrences. Tv to make us tolerant to many! And God or the "higher''( as some would say) as a foundation to enable us to achieve what we all are meant to! we pray for change, a beteer car,job,carreer.. a salary increasement, never do we realise that we are still living and we can still see the beautifull sunlight: this alone tells us that life aint over! God has given you all you needed and not all you wanted, at times you need to pay attention to the things you do have that God has actually given you: friends to be healthy, brother to have a safe trip,comletion of a degree ect. We are so troubled with what we want and forget to pay attention to what we gotta thank God for giving us! Our Needs!
so in bottom, it aint about starting over..its about doing whats right! set the vision you see for your future and start building those puzzels everyday to avhieve that! Give yaself recognition now and again and watch a Soap Opera... believe me: You are gonna realise your life and that bad at all!!!
Now have yourself a beautiful day and make sure you do not forget that life aint over, until you dont see that beautiful smile of yours.
Friday, 31 May 2013
Tuesday, 21 May 2013
Mirror mirror on the wall: what makes me beautifull?
" that would look nice on you! Skinny people really have cute stuff designed for them, If only i had her eyes and legs. Nah, we are older thats why he still has a six pack"
My question to plople who utters these comments : Is there a bloodcell of self-pity in your vain when you say that? now be honest with yaself? Is there? If there are any, honey...change that...work out! got to the gym< eat less...whatever... well bout now! have you seen the fat lady next door with the worlds full of confidence? i"ve got a cousin Lucky who has been chubby as a toddler, and having me as a cousin i never forgot a sec to defend myself when he would call me faggot i'd kill him with '' fatty boom boom"...20 years late, lucky is still as big, but what no i avoids to see is that persona>>Lucky is a funny,friendly and comfortable guy who never complains about his weight because he realised all his efforts in tryna loose it were are invain.. he opted to make pease with eating healthy and just being a happy daddy to Fefe and Shandrey! I getv that beauty today is what the Elle Magz cover page depicts..lol! u r dumb to believing that...i could call that a manifesting of retail-psycological-behaviour! We have been brainwashed to belive so!!! Beauty is seriously just what you believe it is, because confidence runs deeper than the Christian Loubouton shoe that witch os wearing! confidence is that consistent power to compete with yourself only. Its that engine in you that carries that body!!! so do not think you lost fuel by not having those perfect long legs!!!!
but then agian...some peopel just dont like the way they hair looks probaply! i gathered this new notion that some African ladies judges those who puts on weave and class them as "less-proudly" African....now thats bull honey! what is so African about a white wedding? whats so African about Mothersday and Valentines Day? now seriosly, stop going all Einstein on lil crap like that...if you are so authentically African why dont you danate your salary to our hungry sisters in Lebia?.... Honey! your atrributes says nothing about you! YOUR HAIR,LIPS, SHORT SKIRT,WHATEVER.!!Some sylist wi;; give it some cute prada terms... But what makes you beautifull is that alone what you think does!!!!!
So if u dont have green eyes<love yours! but if u want green ones! get contact lenses! if you think you are fat? and u wish to loose weight! eat healthy and less, and if u cannot loose any! try falling inlove with youself and just let it be....
LIVE LIFE TO THHE VERRIEST FULLEST!
LIFE IS ONLY OVER WHEN YOU CANT SEE THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE OF YOURS!
My question to plople who utters these comments : Is there a bloodcell of self-pity in your vain when you say that? now be honest with yaself? Is there? If there are any, honey...change that...work out! got to the gym< eat less...whatever... well bout now! have you seen the fat lady next door with the worlds full of confidence? i"ve got a cousin Lucky who has been chubby as a toddler, and having me as a cousin i never forgot a sec to defend myself when he would call me faggot i'd kill him with '' fatty boom boom"...20 years late, lucky is still as big, but what no i avoids to see is that persona>>Lucky is a funny,friendly and comfortable guy who never complains about his weight because he realised all his efforts in tryna loose it were are invain.. he opted to make pease with eating healthy and just being a happy daddy to Fefe and Shandrey! I getv that beauty today is what the Elle Magz cover page depicts..lol! u r dumb to believing that...i could call that a manifesting of retail-psycological-behaviour! We have been brainwashed to belive so!!! Beauty is seriously just what you believe it is, because confidence runs deeper than the Christian Loubouton shoe that witch os wearing! confidence is that consistent power to compete with yourself only. Its that engine in you that carries that body!!! so do not think you lost fuel by not having those perfect long legs!!!!
but then agian...some peopel just dont like the way they hair looks probaply! i gathered this new notion that some African ladies judges those who puts on weave and class them as "less-proudly" African....now thats bull honey! what is so African about a white wedding? whats so African about Mothersday and Valentines Day? now seriosly, stop going all Einstein on lil crap like that...if you are so authentically African why dont you danate your salary to our hungry sisters in Lebia?.... Honey! your atrributes says nothing about you! YOUR HAIR,LIPS, SHORT SKIRT,WHATEVER.!!Some sylist wi;; give it some cute prada terms... But what makes you beautifull is that alone what you think does!!!!!
So if u dont have green eyes<love yours! but if u want green ones! get contact lenses! if you think you are fat? and u wish to loose weight! eat healthy and less, and if u cannot loose any! try falling inlove with youself and just let it be....
LIVE LIFE TO THHE VERRIEST FULLEST!
LIFE IS ONLY OVER WHEN YOU CANT SEE THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE OF YOURS!
Tuesday, 14 May 2013
MIRROR MIRROR ON MY WALL! WHO DO I NEED VALIDATION FROM?
When one embarks on a new venture,put on a new outfit,represent a crowd in a meeting,dance when ur super drunk in a clud? whatever? we all at times get a great confidence injection when someone utters: "u did great'>u looked fab.,! yeah it feels amazing to get recognition...but what if someone doesnt say a thing? your boss just looks at the dude sitting next to him after your hard working effort? no one cares to say you did a great job?
Thats the thing with validation! what if u dont get it! well try validation from ya inner critic! that lil voice that always says ur amzing! ur perfect! u van do it! u always break a leg! believe in that lil voice!
Well that voice can also be a bitch at times! that same voice can tell u:" james is always better",'wish that witch is not gonna be there,she always gets most of the attention"...That inner voice can make or break you!
Well i learned that everybody has insecurities! I remember being at a "white school'' and the white boys use to be so perfect at all. The english teacher asked a question,and gave us two possible answers>>. all said one answer,I was the only one who decided to give the opposite answer! the teacher was in disbelief and asked them all; Are u sure thats the correct answer? they all confidently said yes>>right there! that very moment i was never as confident as ever, I told myself: ag whatever! i know im right! i know i wont die if i get it wrong! i know these classmates of mine arent even sure! so what the hell?!......YES! Givado was right! there i stood knowing i was right! now they gotto bow down i was right! all that respect! that envy! i felt good!
You see, we all have insecurties, Queen Oprah herself got some insecurities! so u fake confidence till it becomes ya best friend!!! so it aint the validation from any! its what you do and allowing yourself to believe in this statement: everybody has insecurites,so flip whatever!!! I CAN DO THISS!!
So remember!
LIVE IS ONLY OVER WHEN U DONT SEE THE BEAUTIFUL SMILE OF YOURS!!
Thats the thing with validation! what if u dont get it! well try validation from ya inner critic! that lil voice that always says ur amzing! ur perfect! u van do it! u always break a leg! believe in that lil voice!
Well that voice can also be a bitch at times! that same voice can tell u:" james is always better",'wish that witch is not gonna be there,she always gets most of the attention"...That inner voice can make or break you!
Well i learned that everybody has insecurities! I remember being at a "white school'' and the white boys use to be so perfect at all. The english teacher asked a question,and gave us two possible answers>>. all said one answer,I was the only one who decided to give the opposite answer! the teacher was in disbelief and asked them all; Are u sure thats the correct answer? they all confidently said yes>>right there! that very moment i was never as confident as ever, I told myself: ag whatever! i know im right! i know i wont die if i get it wrong! i know these classmates of mine arent even sure! so what the hell?!......YES! Givado was right! there i stood knowing i was right! now they gotto bow down i was right! all that respect! that envy! i felt good!
You see, we all have insecurties, Queen Oprah herself got some insecurities! so u fake confidence till it becomes ya best friend!!! so it aint the validation from any! its what you do and allowing yourself to believe in this statement: everybody has insecurites,so flip whatever!!! I CAN DO THISS!!
So remember!
LIVE IS ONLY OVER WHEN U DONT SEE THE BEAUTIFUL SMILE OF YOURS!!
Monday, 13 May 2013
MIRROR MIRROR ON THEM WALL! WHO KNOWS LIFE AINT OVER UNTILL I CANT SEE CUTE SMILE OF MINE!!! GIVADO
Weird when I heard my lady friend replying to me: im not good today, a lil depressed!....Oky: now im thinking how in Zimbawe do you call that on yourself? i asked her Whadup? she replies: nothing really,...! if it is nothing then dont feel anything! if ur a lil overworked,chill out! if u heard something that offended you<work on it or ingore it>>> could've killed her for feeling so down, just want her to look herself in the Mirror and remind herself of who she really is, a successful young undersized women>> wekll she has gained much weight>>> but she has a hubby and three beautiful kids, unlike some other witches who are still putting in to get out!!! nah girl!!! look in the mirror and smile!!! dont call yaself depressed, just say ur emotionaly limping and u need good sex!
GIVADO
# life is only over when u cant see that beautifull smille of yours!
Weird when I heard my lady friend replying to me: im not good today, a lil depressed!....Oky: now im thinking how in Zimbawe do you call that on yourself? i asked her Whadup? she replies: nothing really,...! if it is nothing then dont feel anything! if ur a lil overworked,chill out! if u heard something that offended you<work on it or ingore it>>> could've killed her for feeling so down, just want her to look herself in the Mirror and remind herself of who she really is, a successful young undersized women>> wekll she has gained much weight>>> but she has a hubby and three beautiful kids, unlike some other witches who are still putting in to get out!!! nah girl!!! look in the mirror and smile!!! dont call yaself depressed, just say ur emotionaly limping and u need good sex!
GIVADO
# life is only over when u cant see that beautifull smille of yours!
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